Does this mean you won't offer me any more chardonay on ice?

Actually, again, Wilma, he tries to be nice and polite--was starting to like him much better than 'the others': here's another example of the Sneak Attack.

uh oh, now, he's gone and done it --He's given permission to unleash the wrath of all upon us.  What will we do!  What will we do!

YHWY, c'mon back and play.  We like you, you're a righteous dude, kind sir--didn't mean it when I said you were a sneak attacker, even though you no longer think I'm hot or that I remind you of your reject ex's anymore. C'mon back YAWN, we need someone to play with.

C'mon back and I'll exert my (if any?) influence over Wilma and persuade her to answer your questions (...maybe).

How about scotch & soda over ice?  Will that help?