(Bloomberg) -- Do you have a minute to talk about your death?
It isn't easy to sell life insurance. Investing in a mutual fund, you feel like you’re saving money. Purchasing insurance, you feel like you’re spending it.
“It’s not a pleasant thing to buy,” said John Schlifske, chief executive officer of Northwestern Mutual Life Insurance Co., the second-largest U.S. seller of life insurance by premiums. “There’s no immediate gratification.”
Yet millions of Americans don’t have enough insurance to protect their families from death or disability. Life insurance sales are dropping even as the large millennial generation starts having kids.
Blame, if you like, parents who can’t get their act together. Thirty percent of Americans know they need more life insurance, according to a 2015 survey by Limra, a trade organization.
But you might reserve some of the blame for the cautious and conservative industry itself. Buying the right insurance can be tedious and expensive. A recent report from McKinsey & Co. tallied up the unpleasantness: complex and confusing products, paperwork that takes forever to fill out, salespeople who push their wares rather than provide objective information.
The insurance industry has demonstrated a "sluggish response to change," the McKinsey report concluded, failing "to keep up with changes in consumer behavior and preferences."
In the age of Uber and Amazon, insurance is still sold much as it was in the middle of the 19th century, when many of its largest purveyors were founded. Insurance companies have armies of agents stationed in towns across America. Their job is to get to know their neighbors–at the church, the country club, the Chamber of Commerce luncheon–and then lure them to the office for a sitdown.
To many experts on personal finance, the whole setup can seem pretty quaint. In books and online forums, a top obsession these days is minimizing fees. “You can’t control the market,” the cliché goes, “but you can control your costs.”
Insurance agents, meanwhile, often charge fat, obscure commissions as compensation for the many hours it takes to find their customers. Even without commissions, insurers can make it hard to figure out the true cost of a policy or to do comparison shopping.
Insurance companies, like financial advisers, sometimes violate another modern taboo, against self-serving advice. In addition to selling essentials such as life and disability insurance, agents may be awarded commissions for selling various kinds of annuities, many of them so mysterious that the agents themselves can get confused.
In his classic investing guide, "A Random Walk Down Wall Street," Princeton University finance professor Burton Malkiel is blunt about insurance. “Avoid any complex financial products as well as the hungry agents who try to sell them to you,” he writes. He recommends readers skip agents entirely, searching for insurance online through sites such as Term4Sale.
Insurance’s image problem shows up in its sales results. In the past 30 years, the U.S. population has risen by 84 million while the number of individual life policies sold has plunged.
The industry has tried to make up for the drop in individual life policies by focusing on more-affluent customers and selling them annuities and other complex products, in addition to the staples of life and disability.
"Life insurers have been successfully responding to change for generations," said Jack Dolan, a spokesman for the American Council of Life Insurers. Dolan said the group's members are forward-looking, especially when it comes to new technology. "It helps explain why so many companies have been in business for more than 100 years," he said.
The standard advice on insurance, and it still holds, is that everyone should have disability coverage to protect against the chance they will no longer be able to support themselves or their families. You also need life insurance if you have financial dependents, with coverage several times your annual income. Experts usually recommend getting "term" policies – temporary coverage, only for the time when your children will be relying on you – rather than permanent, "whole" insurance coverage, which is usually pricier. The most convenient and cost-effective way to buy disability and life insurance is often through employers, who can get better group rates, though that coverage generally isn’t portable if you leave your job.
Maybe it's time for life insurers to change things up. McKinsey’s report urges the industry to rethink the way it sells its products and emphasize how insurance can help customers while they're still alive. One way is to link it with people’s retirement needs, including protection against medical and long-term care costs. Some policymakers in Washington want workers to have access to insurance products through their 401(k) retirement plans, in the form of simple annuities that protect against the risk of living too long and running out of money. Those proposals are bound up in red tape.
Northwestern Mutual, founded in 1857, has proved to be one of the more innovative companies, and has been growing, boosting revenue 4.4 percent last year to $27.9 billion. A year ago, the Milwaukee mutual insurer bought Learnvest, a five-year-old Manhattan startup that offers personalized financial planning through the web and over the phone. While allowing its acquisition to operate independently, Northwestern is using Learnvest’s expertise to build new digital tools, including software that helps clients monitor their spending and stay on budget.
Still, Schlifske is adamant that face-to-face meetings are the best way to sell the firm’s insurance and investment products. Like a personal trainer, “a human being creates discipline to get people to do what they need to do,” he said. Schlifske, 57, said he is disturbed by the American trend toward do-it-yourself financial planning.
“Many people in this country, maybe most people, don’t know how to achieve true financial security,” he said. “Everyone is kind of figuring it out their own way. They don’t know where they are. They don’t know where they’re going. They don’t have a road map.” And most people are never going to buy insurance without hand-holding, he said.
“We do have a perception problem that we’re battling,” Schlifske said. “But we know that when we sit down in front of clients and explain the value of what insurance does from a financial security perspective, we make headway.”
It's the sitting-down part the industry is having trouble with.
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